{"id":23510,"date":"2014-03-14T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-03-14T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/?p=23510"},"modified":"2014-03-14T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2014-03-14T00:00:00","slug":"ailenin-sinav-kaygisi-cocugu-basarisiz-yapiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/2014\/03\/14\/ailenin-sinav-kaygisi-cocugu-basarisiz-yapiyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Ailenin s\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z yap\u0131yor"},"content":{"rendered":"\u0130zmir \u00dcniversitesi\u0092nde d\u00fczenlenen \u0093S\u0131nav Kayg\u0131s\u0131 ve Velinin Rol\u00fc\u0094 ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 konferansta konu\u015fan Uzman Psikolog ve Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Mehmet K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan daha fazla s\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131 ya\u015fayabildiklerini, bunun da \u00e7ocukta bask\u0131 ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa neden oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. \r
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\u00d6\u011frencilerde temel olarak \u0093anne babaya, e\u015fe dosta ve \u00f6\u011fretmenlere kar\u015f\u0131 rezil olma korkusu\u0094nun s\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131na neden oldu\u011funu vurgulayan K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7, bir miktar kayg\u0131n\u0131n faydal\u0131 oldu\u011funu ancak y\u00fczde 50\u0092nin \u00fczerine \u00e7\u0131kan kayg\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa neden oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131. Kayg\u0131 konusunda anne babalar\u0131 uyaran K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi: \r
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\u0093Her y\u0131l yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 milyon \u00e7ocuk s\u0131nava giriyor. Hepsi \u00fcniversiteyi kazanam\u0131yor ama hayat devam ediyor. Ya \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun keyfini \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ya da onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 zindana \u00e7evirirsiniz. Ancak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla birlikte sevgi dolu bir hayattan \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. Ona en \u00e7ok k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anda, onunla ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz en g\u00fczel an\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlayam\u0131yorsan\u0131z, do\u011fumunda duydu\u011funuz mutlulu\u011fu hat\u0131rlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.\u0094\r
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K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7, \u00f6nemli s\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131 g\u00f6stergelerini ani \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131, d\u00fczensiz uyku ve yeme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, t\u0131rnak yeme, \u00e7arp\u0131nt\u0131, dikkat toplayamama, bildiklerini unutma, ba\u015f a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, mide \u015fik\u00e2yeti, k\u00e2bus g\u00f6rme, sa\u00e7la-kalemle oynama, ani tepki verme, a\u011flama krizleri, s\u00fcrekli s\u0131nav\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeme, kendini yeterince \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamakla su\u00e7lama olarak s\u0131ralad\u0131. Bu belirtilerin birka\u00e7 tanesinin en az bir iki hafta boyunca devam etmesinin \u00f6nemli s\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131 g\u00f6stergesi oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7eken Uzm. Psikolog Mehmet K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7, \u00e7ocuklarla do\u011fru ileti\u015fime girmek i\u00e7in ailelerin \u0093Sen bizim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok de\u011ferlisin. Senin iyi ve mutlu olman\u0131 istiyoruz. Bunun i\u00e7in biz ne yapabiliriz? G\u00fcnde ka\u00e7 saat \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsun? Sence bu kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman yeterli mi? Ka\u00e7 puan al\u0131yorsun? Girmek istedi\u011fin \u00fcniversite ve b\u00f6l\u00fcm i\u00e7in yeterli mi? Peki ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fin noktaya \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in ne yapabilirsin? Sana nas\u0131l yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirim? Okulun ya da dershanenin rehberlik servisi ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek, bizim de g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmemizi ister misin?\u0094 sorular\u0131n\u0131 sormas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade etti.\r
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\u00c7ocu\u011fu i\u00e7in endi\u015felenmenin aileler i\u00e7in do\u011fal oldu\u011funu ancak \u0093E\u011fer s\u0131nav\u0131 kazanamazsan\u0085\u0094 diye ba\u015flayan her c\u00fcmlenin \u00e7ocuk ile aile aras\u0131nda u\u00e7urumlar a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlatan K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7, \u0093Hayat bir noktada bedel \u00f6demektir. O nedenle bir yerden sonra \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ‘Bu senin se\u00e7imin, sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 da senin olacak’ diyebilmelisiniz\u0094 dedi.

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